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Every month we try to find ways to pay it forward, spread kindness, and honor Eddie. November is a significant month for us because it’s the anniversary of Eddie’s passing

I am beyond excited to announce that after years of discussing this idea, my sister Diana and I have written our first children’s book! Being a school counselor, I really

Have you ever done something exciting yet terrifying at the same time? Well here goes nothing… After all these years, writing, editing, second guessing, ripping my hair out, tears, laughter,

I’m excited to share the front and back cover of my memoir. This was not my original vision for my cover as I was not planning on having my face

Eddie is just one of the many who have risked it all so we are able to live freely. Thank you for being the hero that you didn’t try to

Thank you to my friend Emily for sharing this Ted talk of Nora Mclnerly with me. For those who have suffered a loss or know someone who is grieving, I

Today I had the pleasure of meeting author, James McLeod. James excitedly shared his book “The Boy Behind The Face” with the first graders in the school I work in.

Every year on Eddie’s birthday I like to do something to celebrate his life. I have surrounded myself with those who love him, toasted to him during a beautiful sunset,

This quote really resonates with me. Sometimes I catch myself counting down the days until Friday and realize I need to stop wishing time away. Our time is short, precious

I have great news to share about the availability of my memoir “Who Are You Calling a Widow?” I decided to take my book into my own hands. What does

Self doubt has been my biggest struggle when it comes to writing. I’m so fixated on making sure everything is perfect and that everyone is going to like my book.

I truly believe there is more good than evil in this world. Love and kindness is stronger than hate.

May 2019 bring you love, happiness, extra vacation days, chocolate that makes you thinner, a house that cleans itself and 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep! “Today is the first blank

It’s important to realize that the holidays are not always joyous for some and that it can be a painful time of year or a painful reminder. While someone may

It’s the most wonderful time of the year, right? Not everyone is going to share that feeling. The holiday scramble is upon us trying to find the best sales and

On Saturday November 10, 2018 I attended the unveiling of the monument dedicated to Veterans of the Gulf War/War on terror. I feel a huge sense of pride being from

Dates and anniversaries have a way of bringing us back to a moment in time. The memories seem clearer and sharper. Smells, sounds, thoughts and feelings come back as if

Radio host, speaker, author, certified financial planner and Army veteran Steve Repak graciously reached out to me for an interview on his Christian finance radio show. He predominantly focuses on

Most people look back to where they were when they heard the unthinkable happened. It was a day that is imbedded into our minds leaving it impossible to forget. I

After attending the Thrillerfest last week in NYC, I found myself thinking about the term “runner’s high.” Once a runner reaches a certain distance, their endorphins kick in and they

Yesterday was the 8th annual memorial golf tournament for Eddie. People traveled from all over the U.S. to celebrate his life and I know he would be forever grateful. I’m

June 30th will be the 8th annual SGT Edward Bolen memorial golf tournament. This amazing tournament has donated to the Wounded Warriors foundation, Fisher house and provided scholarships for students

When I was younger I didn’t truly understand the meaning of Memorial Day. To me, it was a 3-day weekend filled with BBQ’s, swimming and fun times with family and

Today is and always will be a special day for me. Today, April 25, Eddie was supposed to turn 33. While I have struggled through this day without him through

It’s amazing how people can connect with others through tragedies in their lives. It could be someone you might have never met if the circumstances were even slightly different. I

I like to keep things light and positive as much as possible and not engage in political talk. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and conversations can turn ugly

So, now you have a literary agent…What’s next?? Many have asked me if this means my book will be coming out soon. As much as I wish that were true,

I am over the moon excited that I have signed with the lovely Terrie Wolf at AKA literary management as my literary agent! After months of editing, querying, receiving endless

It has occured to me that the fellowship amongst writers is like one long run on sentence. I’m constantly blown away by the kindness of other writers. Being new to

During this holiday season, I ask that you continue the WWED (What Would Eddie Do) mantra and spread kindness. Some are celebrating the holidays, while others are dreading it. Many

Today is a day that weighs heavy on my heart. From the moment the two soldiers arrived at my house, I knew my biggest fear had become a reality. I

Last week I did just that. I have been working on my memoir for over six years and have told very few people about it. I’ve kept it a secret

I would like to start my first blog by thanking all of those who helped me get to where I am today. For those who know me, I’m sure this